Women Bad at Sex?

[clynn]

I had a friend say to me that there isn't much a woman can do (or not) to be bad at sex.

What are thoughts on that?

And it is true that when I hear about performance it often relates to men's performance. It does seem as though there is more pressure on them to perform.....

But I'm sure that can't always be the case.....

What things can a woman do or not that can make her a poor sexual partner?

[Only-virgins]

She could spread her legs more.

[clynn]

She could spread her legs more.

More? As in more wider?

Or as in more frequently??

[Only-virgins]

More? As in more wider?

Or as in more frequently??

As in wider. They should take up Gymnastic and do all kinds of crazy stuff in bed.

[clynn]

Crazy stuff? Such as?

[Illusional]

this is some funny shit... well alright, if you really wanna know how kinky a woman can get, rent a porn. well you might be too young so you might want to do some research online for some free porn. that will give your gf some ideas.

raverboy

[Kiechi]

Women Bad at Sex?

Depends how much you pay them.

[wishiwassocial]

Depends how much you pay them.

hahahaha

or how much you let them pay you

[shh!]

What you see in pornography is not necessarily what feels good in actual sex. Porn is made to be a visual feast - not a physical one. (This according to the HBO shows featuring porn stars.) In my opinion, simply participating (rather than laying there like you are dead) is all that is required to make a man happy.

[Innova]

What you see in pornography is not necessarily what feels good in actual sex. Porn is made to be a visual feast - not a physical one. (This according to the HBO shows featuring porn stars.) In my opinion, simply participating (rather than laying there like you are dead) is all that is required to make a man happy.

Yeah, but at the same time if I know shes not enjoying it...then im not lol.

[Illusional]

porn is this case might be a better solution because he is wondering about different sexual positions. because he is asking these questions on the forum, i'm guessing that his friends are also unaware of most aspects on this topic.

raverboy

[clynn]

ummm, actually I am a girl and I'm just curious in general what both men and women's thoughts are on the subject. As I am sure us women can be bad in bed, and I tend to disagree with my friend that said that women can't really be bad in bed.

However, I would hazard to guess that women are more critical and judgemental of men in the sack than vice versa and that in general more of the pressure is on the man than on the woman.

But I wanna know what others think....

And of course as a woman I can't really comment too much! I can talk about what makes a man bad in the sack (usually someone too needy to get off and therefore too pushy is the biggest turnoff. also a guy who thinks he is a stallion and knows all the moves - when no matter how much you know, each woman is different...).

[TAVS]

If I want to do a log, I'll get a log.

[MrDrum]

Yes a woman can be bad in bed. If she were to just lay there... that would be a turn off. A woman that knows she is sexy.. and uses that fact in bed to flaunt, or "show off" a little.. can greatly inhance the experience. There is a LOT a woman can do (or not) that can completely change the experience.

[Tas]

Well of course it's sthg more rare to discuss because we men need to make our best performance after all.

Seriously speaking I find a woman bad in bed when she doesn't have an erotic attitude. When sex is pleasure but like "a good christian" she shouldn't talk about it and feel a bit guilty and stick to the usual (I mean positions etc) but that's it, no moves, moaning and variety (!).

After all in that section (sex) men like to be appreciated for their effort to ...give their best and women like to receive that (I think I made it too hot!). It really turns me down when women comment on that (who do you think you are, you think you know all the moves eh? etc), even as a joke while deep inside they like him but they think they keep him "on earth" with that attitude.

And I don't get it, why being sensual with your bf and often express that with each other means you are slutty or whatever ? Don't misunderstand, I don't mean do it in public or do it all the time, but this phrase "people are watching" or "stop it you touch me all the time" (at home) really makes me