Hey everyone,
I have this issue i need opinions on. Im 20 years old. i've been in a relationship with this girl for 4 1/2 years. Things were great but they're slowly starting to fade, drama and fighting are beginning to cause my body physical pain through stress and anxiety. be for i met this girl though i had one of those "online relationship" for a few months. the girl i was talking to lived in california, beautiful caring and sweet girl. for the past 3 years i've been in a controlling relationship, working, coming home, and repeat. she doesn't like when i go out with my friends, shes clingy and controlling, but im a sensitive guy and i don't want to hurt her.
Its getting to the point were im about to just leave. But this is what i want your opinions on. Would it be completely crazy to buy a plane ticket to California and see this girl for a week? i really want to get away to clear my head after the break up with this girl. i've been controlled for 3 years i want to do something spontaneous. i've been talking to the girl from california but i haven't mentioned this yet. what do you guys think about this? and have you ever done anything crazy for a girl you've had feelings for?