Originally Posted by
olb30
You have NOT messed up big time. Don't panic, don't worry.
You did the right thing by telling her you liked her.
I've learned sometimes being honest and upfront saves you alot of time and often saves you from major dissapointment sometime later on.
99% of the time someone either likes you, or they don't. there's never usually any middle ground.
Generally speaking, if you tell a girl you like her, it will either confirm that she is interested in you, or she isn't.
I think 4 months seeing a girl is a long time without having some sort of mutual understanding of where you two stand on liking each other.
Maybe, just maybe, she saw you two as friends?
I can't say for sure though. If this is the case, you telling her that you like her might have pushed her away a little as it may be awkward for her.
On the other hand, she might just be shy because she may like you too.
My advise is to wait until she contacts you, don't bug her about the matter. If you don't hear anything then you know where you stand.
How long has it been since you told her?