I was always curious, what do most of you ladies think when you meet a guy who isn't as experienced as you? Is it is a turn off, and you don't want to waste your time or do you not mind being more experienced and maybe teaching the guy things?
I was always curious, what do most of you ladies think when you meet a guy who isn't as experienced as you? Is it is a turn off, and you don't want to waste your time or do you not mind being more experienced and maybe teaching the guy things?
I think it's personal preference, and also depends on age and amount of experience.
At my age (29), and with my experience, I'd be willing to date someone with LESS experience....but not a virgin. If you're still a virgin at 29, something's just not right.
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I mean like a guy who isn't a virgin, but not by much.
i can't stand people who don't give enough or any details in a situation.
how about, i am an ugly bastard who farts all day and smells like garlic would you sleep with me?
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I think it depends on the girl. I don't mind if a guy is not very experienced, and almost prefer it. I think it makes it easier to get him to do things the way I like them done and he's not set in a certain way of doing them (if that makes sense).
My roommate, on the other hand, prefers her men to be very experienced and will get a little freaked out if he's not.
I would say just be honest about it. No one can blame you for not having a lot of sexual experience IMO.
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Can I ask why you wouldn't date a virgin? Maybe there is a good reason that they are a virgin. Maybe some people aren't ready to have sex until they are 30, or haven't had the oportunity.
I'm not trying to say that your opinion is wrong, I am just curious as to why you wouldn't date a virgin male your age?
Do you mean inexperienced or just bad? the two aren't always the same thing.
I've always found that the first few times with a new guy aren't especially great, so I'd never make any judgements on a guy based on how he performed early on in a relationship.
I've been pretty lucky with all the guys I've been in relationships with. Even if a guy is inexperienced sexually if he's anyway perceptive he can make up for it just by paying attention and being able to tell what response he's getting from whatever he's doing sexually. The guy I was with that was probably the most inexperienced sexually was also the fastest to figure out that my tummy was my favourite body part so showered attention on it. Which made up for the fact that he was pretty awful the first few times. It also helped that he didn't get all defensive when I didn't hide the fact that I wasn't enjoying the sex. Some guys actually expect you to fake orgasams and try and convince them you're enjoying it.
One thing I have noticed is that inexperienced guys place great faith (too much) in giving oral sex and sticking fingers up you. If they have trouble putting a condom on properly its another sign.
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hi, i don't know about inexperience or virginity limits..i got married last year when i was 27..and bang i got everything right no hesitation and no difficulties... it was like first time best sex because i never touched a girl before ..