how to talk to girls on msn

[JohnDough]

how do you talk to girls on msn and i dont just mean girl you like but her freinds aswell, please help i keep having arkward silences which really annoys me and them?

[Agape]

it's msn . . . people might think, they might be having multiple convos, they might be watching tv or being distracted themselves

don't read into non-'real life' interaction so much . . it will only make you insecure.

[MerryH]

it's msn . . . people might think, they might be having multiple convos, they might be watching tv or being distracted themselves

Yeah, this. But in general, a good way to fill awkward silences is to ask them friendly questions about themselves. People love talking about themselves and it shows that you have an interest in knowing who they are.

[Agape]

Yeah, this. But in general, a good way to fill awkward silences is to ask them friendly questions about themselves. People love talking about themselves and it shows that you have an interest in knowing who they are.

open ended stuff is always good . . . and always try to relate stuff, don't abruptly change the topic - just go along with the natural stream of consciousness/conversation