My boyfriend and his female best friend are too close for comfort and he sees nothing wrong with it. He often has sleepovers and her place and they even sleep in the same bed. He texts her things like "you're the best thing that has ever happened to me", "i miss you" and they say "i love you". He calls her the same pet names he calls me, and she is always texting him to pick her up, take her grocery shopping etc. They talk on the phone a lot too. Yet he says there is nothing going on and this is a normal friendship.
He makes me feel bad for thinking anything is going on between them and says they stay on seperate sides when they sleep in the same bed. But then why do they even do it? I've never even met her and I've known him for over a year, he talks to her about me all the time asking for advice when we fight and what not. He says he is willing to stop the inappropriate aspects of their friendship to say with me but I just don't know if I can believe him. He also says he cant stop talking to her but A. it could be a lie, and B. if its not I don't want to be the one that comes between him and his friends telling him who to see and not to see. He should do that on his own.