hahahaha oh man this sucks, i just typed a huuuuuuuuuuuge post, and it got deleted..... damnit.
um, okay basically my girlfriend keeps getting upset with me when i do the random things i do without thinking. we're very respectful of each other, and have been together for about 13 months now.
oh this sucks, i wrote soooo much.
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well we basically broke up the weekend after thanksgiving, but then that night we talked and after i said something seemingly unimportant, she magically was okay again. so the next weekend, after hanging out with friends, we scramble back to my room and make love for the first time. this had been a big climb in our relationship, before we had only been intimate in non-penatrative sexual activities (oral, etc). um, this is random for me because well...nothing felt different for me, while she was seemingly telling me "i cant believe i doubted you all this time"
over the past 10 months we had been in a very subtle argument over something that she holds as THE most important thign in her life. "It's not my opinion, it's just the way things are..."
so phrases like "get it" and "maybe youre just too logical to let go" have come up in our adventures.
has anyone else been in this kind of situation before?
oh um, lemmie describe her. She's a wonderfully beautiful 22 year old with a bachelor's degree in psychology. she loves old nickelodeon tv shows like are you afraid of the dark and fraggle rock, she loves green day, showtunes, 80's music, dance music, and raves. REAL raves, hehe, like camping out in the woods secret society stuff. it's very cool. we both drink, smoke weed, and have done mushrooms together. after the second time on mushrooms, she spent almost an hour and a half trying to show me why time is bad (subjective time). well, um, it didnt make any sense, but there is something about her that makes me trust her and know that she is right about all this. she lives very moment to moment, for example, sometimes when we're in the heat of a very harsh argument, she can laugh at something else, because it's not the subject of the argument, and not related to that part of her life at all (ie, the dog). she's a very strong willed person, and can win any argument. she likes stuffed animals and LOVEs pink and other pretty things. gah, i could go on forever.... i guess one main problem is that she thinks i dont contribute anything to the relationship. In her words: "I give and give and I dont get anything back" Well, um, I am the type of person to give, but i dont know what i CAN give. Whenever we discuss this, she ends up saying she cant TELL me what to do for her.
help?
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