I think 21 is too young to settle down, whether or not that 21 year old is a parent. (Unless you are talking about the father of the child.) People do a HUGE amount of growing up throughout their 20s, and what strikes you as a good idea at 21 will likely not strike you as a good idea when you are 30.
And yes, I would wonder why a 34 year old man would rather date a 21 year old single parent than a girl with no baggage.
Sorry.
Last edited by vashti; 02-01-06 at 10:36 AM.
Relax... I'll need some information first. Just the basic facts - can you show me where it hurts?