Ok I've been out w this guy I like twice but we've been talking over fb for 2 wks. I saw him Sat night I could tell he liked me but there was no kiss-just him having his arm around me. Up to then I didn't know if he liked me. He's really shy and hard to read.
So we went out Tuesday. At first he said he wanted to but couldn't cause he had work @ 6am and it was already 11pm. But he mentioned he was hoping we could go out this wknd. I didn't really say anything cause I wanted to see him tues. He sounded like he really wanted to see me on tues though so he checked his schedule. He didn't have to be in till 8 so I went over his house.
Anyway I thought it went pretty well and he was pretty affectionate while I was there. He did kiss me for the first time (we made out for like 10 mins, nothing big) and when I left he said 'see you soon'. So lately after that he hasn't really been answering my messages as quickly as before (it'll take a day as opposed to maybe 30 min to 4 hrs before depending if he was on). I thanked him for having me over and said I had fun. He didn't mention anything about it. I just asked him casually what he's doing for the wknd- he hasn't answered yet. Anyway my question is, if he doesn't ask me out, should I ask him if he wants to go this wknd? Cause he did say he was hoping to hang out this weekend, but that was before Tuesday. So I'm not sure if Tuesday like substituted for the weekend?? I'm also thinking maybe he's afraid to ask because I didn't say yes or no when he said he was hoping to hang out this weekend. He admitted he's shy when it comes to women.
So would it be bad to just nonchalantly in my next message be like "Oh btw, did you still want to go out to a movie or something this weekend? If not, it's totally fine, I just wasn't sure"? Or should I just forget it and assume he's lost interest? I really don't want to come off as too eager or desperate/clingy. I've done that in the past and pushed guys away. Idk he's probably lost interest anyway :/
Any help would be greatly appreciated. Thanks!