What do U think

[sweetie21]

Guys if your dating a girl who is a virgin would U want her 2 tell U or would U
rather not know?

[vashti]

I'm not male, but I'm not sure you need to go advertising this until you have gotten to know someone pretty well. You don't want your virginity status to become a "challenge", nor do you want to scare away a guy who may intimidated by it.

[Ephemeral Dream]

Don't mention it, unless he asks. If he does, just tell him the truth.

[zro]

i wouldnt give a ****, it doesnt mean anything significant, as vashti said it can be a challenge to some guys - as virgins are less likely to spread their legs - some would see it as an achievment, personally i just want you to be honest

[Ath]

I'd want to know.. but there would no good reason for it. Only curiosity.

[Miss hotty]

I alwayed told my BF other wise they of though i was in to them because i would sleep with them but when it was really because i was worried of doing so

[Charlie Boy II]

I'd definitely tell him Sweetie. It won't be a problem from his point of view - as long as he's with you for the right reasons. He'll be honoured. If he knows, he'll be gentler with you and more understanding of any nervousness.

[Miss hotty]

I agree with you

[LordOfTehVirgin]

I would rather have them tell me. But not randomly like if we are not even there yet. Just do it when you get there, make meh feel special.

[Miss hotty]

aaaaaaawwwwwwww thats really sweet

[Adzer]

I would want to know, then I know the boundaries that she has and is comfortable with, if you really like the guy you should tell him, otherwise wait until your sure you can trust him with such knowledge, because he could just spread it to all his friends and make you a trophy, its sad but it happens

[Miss hotty]

Yes you are so right that happened to me once and it wasn't nice

[anachronistic]

quite frankly, i don't give a shit if she is a virgin or not. but i'm not going to ask, and if she tells me [or especially, brags] that she has slept with other men, i'm going to make a big deal about it.

[Steve2004]

my now ex-boyfriend kicked me out of his car when i told him i wasn't a virgin.

mind you..he ASKED me. i didn't just volunteer the information. i guess it's not what he wanted to hear.

i'd think a boy would WANT a girl to go into their relationship a virgin. It's the NOT being a virgin that you have to learn to lie about pretty quick.
just kidding:|

[LordOfTehVirgin]

my now ex-boyfriend kicked me out of his car when i told him i wasn't a virgin.

mind you..he ASKED me. i didn't just volunteer the information. i guess it's not what he wanted to hear.

i'd think a boy would WANT a girl to go into their relationship a virgin. It's the NOT being a virgin that you have to learn to lie about pretty quick.
just kidding:|

Sorry to hear that. That is really messed up. Sure I would like to be with a virgin but I would not hold it against them if they were not one. As I said, it just makes it more special.

Yes you are so right that happened to me once and it wasn't nice

Some guys don't know how to treat ladies, they have always been around and still no one likes them (figure they would learn by now). Sorry you had to go through that.