Hello People I've been going out with a boy for almost a month, we really like eachother, about a week ago or so we kisses after a friend of mine's party, it was my first kiss, but not his. I'm not sure about sex yet , so I was wondering....., What is it like to be 'fingered'. My friends have had that done to them, because they dont have sex for religious reasons. I mean, does it hurt, is it best done sitting, lieing, standing? Im clueless on the subject, me and my b/f havent talked about it yet. I guess what im asking is... if you've never done anything before, will it hurt the 1st time being 'fingered'??