There is a girl who I've been getting to know real well for the past 3 months now. However she has a bf. They have been together for about 5 months now. She is living here temporarily with her parents and is planning on moving out of her parents place (into her own place) in 5 months from now. Her job allows her to work from home so she can basically live wherever she wants. Her bf is in graduate school and graduating in 5 months from now, and afterwards he is unsure about where he will end up going.
She has told me several times now that she is unsure what will happen to the future of their relationship, as they will probably end up splitting up and going their seperate ways. But she really enjoys this area and all it has to offer, plus it is going to be real hard for her to end up moving far away from her parents.
Like I said we have become very good friends. I play tennis with her often and she has invited me out to do other things as well. I am sure she knows I have feelings for her. I gave her a gift for xmas and she loved it. She knows that I like her but that I cant make a move because she is in a relationship.
So what I am doing now is becoming unavailable to her. I'm going to stop contacting her and stop seeing her all together so that she has to chase me and ends up missing me. In the meantime I have been seeing someone. Eventually she will find out about this other girl and hopefully get jelous as I will be spending my time with her. But how far should I take it with her? If we get into a formal relationship would that be too much. Because in 5 months if she does indeed break up with him and ends up sticking around here I'm hoping she will get with me. But what if I'm in a relationship with this other girl?