Age Difference Relationship

[ETLoveDA]

Hi, my name is E and my partner's name is DA. i'm 18 and he's 41. we're a gay couple. we've been together for two months and having a problem with our relationship. i know its a huge age differences, but i believe there are several people who are in the same position as me right now. i used to think that this is not right to build a relationship with this huge age difference. but now i think we can find a way to solve problems that we have. we barely meet each other. we usually meet up every 2 weeks - 1 month. i know that i can't go out whenever i want because of parents who are not knowing that i'm gay. its something that we didnt consider before we were in relationship. he feel like he need someone to go out with and he can't do that with me because i'm too young and not be able to get out of my house whenever i want. i really need advice what am i suppose to do in this situation. breaking up "IS NOT" gonna solve the problem for me.

[surfhb]

What is your question?

[vashti]

my partner's name is DA. i'm 18 and he's 41.

"Da", as in "dada"? lol

You are too young for him; he is just using you for sex. If you are okay with that, then use protection. If you actually find yourself *caring* for him, you are gonna be shredded emotionally.

[iamaninnocentma]

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