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Ok. So me and my girl have been together over 5 years, lived together over 4 years, and all is good. We are engaged and the relationship itself is great.
My question is, however, should I worry that my GF is watching porn... and usually porn that includes double penetration. That seems to be the main 'category', but other things are watched as well, often anal videos.
Now we have a great sex life, we have tried many things, I won't go into tons of details now, but we are not boring in bed at all! We have many toys, and experiment a lot. And we have done anal, so it isn't like she is watching and fantasizing about things we don't do. Of course the DP is what worries me. And we are a white couple, some of the videos include black males as well - not the majority or anything, but some.
My GF doesn't know that I know she watches porn. Please don't post about how I am invading her privacy! But every once in a while, I will click on her internet history tab(she should delete it if she doesn't want anyone seeing it!). Anyways, about 3 days a week there will be porn in there.
I can't bring it up with her, because she doesn't know that I know she watches it...
Don't know what to do, but it is kind of depressing me, like she would rather masterbate than have sex with me(not like we don't have sex, we do at least 3 times a week, usually more, but... why does she need to watch porn then, I am always here to please her...)
Anyways, just wondering a womens view on this.
Thanks!