Hi everyone.. Long story short:
After a one year smooth relationship (in which I gave my heart and soul), my boyfriend called it quit because I had 'the talk' with him on commitment. Bummer!
After a pretty emotional break up, he asked for us to stay friends and I said yes.
Eventhough I accepted the friendship request, I went NC from day one after the break up.
I really had no interest in talking with him or seeing him. I just needed to heal and get rational.
During a month, he called me a couple of times and ask me to hang out with him, which I refused, it was way too soon. He really was excited about this 'friend' thing but I was never contacting him. It seemed to me that it was just a mean to string me along and get the freedom and me at the same time.
The last call I received was this week, around 11 p.m. and he suggested to come at my place to pick his things up. I said that he absolutely could pick his things up, but that it was too late that day and that he could come during the week-end. During this call, I also told him that I didn't want to remain friends with him even though I've previously accepted his friendship when we broke up. I saw that it was not working because I needed to heal. He seemed pretty disappointed and asked if we could be friends in the future.. I said I didn't know.
He agreed on picking up his things this week-end and ultimately, he never called or showed up. I don't get why and what should I do next...
Thanks for your help!