Hi just joined today because something has been bothering me recently.
About a year ago i broke up, well she broke up with me, after a 5 year relationship because she said her feelings towards me had changed. So after the usual why, how etc i kinda accepted it, but it was really really really hard.
The after a month i heard she got married to some guy, so obviously she must have been cheating on me with that guy while we were in a relationship.
So anyway i got over all this within a few months and moved on with my life and managed to find a lovely woman and she is now my wife and im happy with the marraige.
So now a few weeks ago i started getting phone calls thoughout the day and no one speaking and this went on for a few days, then one day i look out the window in the morning the EX was parked out the house looking straight at me and smiling at me, i nearly had a heart attack lol. Got ready to go to work and she started following me, so i decided to stop and see what the problem was.
Well apparently she still loves me and cant live without me....
I told her nicely to leave me alone and never to bother me again, then all of a sudden she try to kiss me. I backed off and told this was not on.
Now she is everywhere i go, basically stalking me and said she wants to have some sort of relationship with me, even if it means she needs to cheat on her husband, probably basically saying she probably wants to have a sexual type relationship
What do i do???