I am 22 and my gf is 25. She's a very relationship type person and so am I. We have been together for 4 months now. We have always been very honest with each other and she has never given me a reason to not trust her.
We both went out clubbing separately last friday - girls/guys night out. (which we don't do often) I didn't dance with any girls because I don't think it would make her feel good. I asked her later if she danced with any guys and she said she did with one who was part of a bigger group they were hanging out with. I asked her if she was grinding up on him and she said it wasn't anything like that at all and that it was more of a 'dance off'. That there was no sexual connotation to it or any touching of that kind. But if there was no sexual connotation I just don't understand what the benefit is of dancing with a complete stranger of the opposite sex is as opposed to just your friends then?
Am I overreacting? She said that she wouldn't care if I danced with other girls but it just doesn't feel right to me. And even though I do believe her I just am bugged by the image of her dancing with another guy even though it's not 'grinding' or sexual. I didn't ask her to not do it because I don't feel it's right to try to control her, especially if she said it's okay if I do the same. And she said she didn't want me to be upset about this because it's absolutely not a big deal. What should I do?