I have a gf who has been separated for over 1.5 years and is in no hurry to even file for a divorce. Her husband is in no hurry either. They live in separate states and carry on with visitations, child support, alimony, etc as if they are divorced but have not filed and have no plans to do so.
They have been married for 20 years and have millions in debt. That's why I am told a divorce would be economically disasterous for each of them, so they wait until things get better.
In the meantime, I have been seriously dating her, with her children alot, and plan to be with her for a very very long time or marry someday. Plus, we are starting a business together as well.
Should I be concerned that she is not getting a divorce?