Originally Posted by
Illusional
yup, after about the second or third texted, i would've asked for her number already.
raverboy
If you can text her.. doesn't that mean you ALREADY have her number? why not just call? this just screams "i'm too scared and insecure to call you, so i'd rather text".. clearly not an attractive message you're sending off..
you can still fix it though.. call her.. and say:
"Hey, it's me.. (yes, you, as if to imply you know who I am)"
Her: Hey you.. blah blah
"Sorry about the texting, you just struck me as someone shy, and I hate it when i'm the only one talking on the phone, ever had people like that? it sucks.. anyway I just realized you're not really as shy as you come off.. so i'm like.. ugh, awsome, I hate texting, it's so annoying.. it feels like you're trying to type a 10 page paper, but someone's played a practical joke on you and shrunk the keyboard; and you can only use one finger.."
BAM! totally flipped it around.. conveyed confidence, being cocky-funny, added some humor.. I think that makes for a great first impression over the phone.. so just practice it a couple of times if it helps.. and give her a call.. don't be nervous.. seriously.. you're just talking.. you're not asking her to marry you! or go out with you on this first phone call! so there's ZERO good reasons why you should be nervous!
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