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Thread: So much pressure, so little time

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    So much pressure, so little time

    So I'm dating one of those guys who are really quick to say 'I love you'. I've only been dating him for a week! >.< We've known each other well for only two weeks. It's not that I don't like him, but I can't say how I feel just yet. I still need time to be friends with him. I was thinking about breaking up with him, just to get rid of the whole boyfriend/girlfriend label and the pressures that come with it so we can just have that time to really know each other. But I know if I do that, it would break his heart.

    Ehh, anything to say about it?

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    Tell him he's a wackjob and that he needs to back off or else.

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    If you want to date him just remember that you will be the one wearing the pants here.

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    Yep. He just handed over every bit of control.

    Great job by him.

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    I would explain to him that you like him, but want to slow things down a bit and get to know him better. You need to be honest or this relationship will NOT work.
    Appreciate the good times and learn from the bad times....


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