Originally Posted by
jmn45
Ok, so my ex makes absolutely no sense. She just dumped me last week out of nowhere, when the week before she told me she loved me. We had been dating for 8 months without a single argument or problem, and all of a sudden she thinks we "would be better as friends". I hate that line so much. I need some insight on to WHY this even happened in the first place. And no, im not bad at reading signs so there really were not any major problems. It was a ridiculously healthy relationship and now its gone. I went to her house today and she said she was confused and that shes leaving the relationship as a possibility, but I don't wanna wait forever, I'm on and off depressed and to be like this for say months would suck. Any help, suggestions, insight, etc? I want to get her back if possible..
Pretty similar to mine except for the fact that mine was a little longer and she said that she wanted to spend the rest of her life with me two days before we broke up. So, take my advice on this...
...give up on trying to get an answer as to why you both broke up. Because chances are you won't be getting it. If she did what my ex did, she'll likely be with another guy soon. All you can really do right now is wait it out if you really want her back. Though, would it be worth it? If she dates another guy... could you trust her again?
I don't chase, I replace.