This is kind of strange but I have learned to accept men doing nice things for me, I never thought I deserved it or thought they were doing it only because they felt obligated or wanted something from me. For the longest time I was in one sided relationships where I bent over backwards for guys going out of my way physically and financially to make sure they were happy and got nothing in return, not even respect. I'm by no means a gold-digger but slowly in my current relationship I'm learning to allow him to do nice things for me because he cares about me as much as I care about him. Of course I still like to take care of him and sometimes feel very guilty when he does nice things for me or buys me something but I am learning to not feel so weirded out by it.
Last edited by QueenofCorona; 06-01-10 at 04:47 AM.
Reason: elaboration
So, so you think you can tell Heaven from Hell,
blue skies from pain.
Can you tell a green field from a cold steel rail?
A smile from a veil?
Do you think you can tell?
And did they get you to trade your heroes for ghosts?
Hot ashes for trees?
Hot air for a cool breeze?
Cold comfort for change?
And did you exchange a walk on part in the war for a lead role in a cage?