How can you insinuate her you want a blowjob...or viceversa??

[stephen35]

Hello everyone. How can a guy tell his girl he wants a blowjob, without her becoming shock or mad? Or how can you tell she will give it to you?

And another quick stuff....how can you tell her if she wants oral sex (and that you are willing to give it to her) in a good way?


Thank u,

Stephen

[alice]

1. ask her.

2. how do you give a blowjob to a girl?

[misombra]

wait, how old are you?

[alice]

16, i think he mentioned it in the other thread.

[misombra]

oh well then it's good that i took out my original message lol.

[stephen35]

16, i think he mentioned it in the other thread.

yeah correct

[alice]

but i'd still be interested in the giving her a blowjob thing.

[stephen35]

1. ask her.

2. how do you give a blowjob to a girl?

1. Asking? Well, of course, but the thing is how she'll take it if I ask.

2. Haven't

[vashti]

Stephen - you are too young.

Alice: do they call oral sex on women "blow jobs" where you live? It always sounds odd to me to hear it being referred to that way...

[alice]

And another quick stuff....how can you tell her if she wants a blowjob (and that you are willing to give it to her) in a good way?

that's why i've been asking. we don't call it a blowjob either.

[stephen35]

lol sorry for that 1 . Of course I meant givin oral sex to my girlfriend.

[alice]

1. Asking? Well, of course, but the thing is how she'll take it if I ask.

we'll never find out, if you don't.

now, seriously, of course you don't want to ask her verbally, like "you wanna give me a bj or what?" you just have to try out, what she's willing to do and what not. easy, you know, go down on her and she'll tell you to stop if she doesn't like it. just respect her feelings and don't press her to do anything she feels insecure about.

[gHEXjt]

In hs, and even older than hs guys, always expect the girl to make the first move. You should make the first move on her. When you're fooling around, try to take off her pants and go down on her. If she stops you, then you know she's not ready for that, and hence is not ready to give you a blowjob either. If she doesn't stop you, and you do go down on her, then you should expect her to reciprocate. However, if she doesn't, never go down on her again until she does. Also, make sure you know what to do before you go down on her, read up online or something because if you don't know what you're supposed to do, she'll have to fake her orgasm.

Also, how long have you been dating? When I was your age it was normal to go the first few months without getting any from your girlfriend.

[imatitlover]

I just simply ask my sweetie if she will give me a blow job.Doesnt always say yes and do it right away,but many a time will say later OK,and I remind her later,and she does.
I ask her if she wants a lick job

[alice]

I just simply ask my sweetie if she will give me a blow job.Doesnt always say yes and do it right away,but many a time will say later OK,and I remind her later,and she does.
I ask her if she wants a lick job

if you have to remind her of it, she doesn't really want to!