The importance of a safe zone?

[Hookahmike]

As I sit, bored out of my mind at work certain things cross my mind one in particular keeps coming back. A few weeks ago I was talking to my best friend (who ive been after in one form or another srnce I mrt her) reguarding my latest debocle with my on again off again bipolar ex and how the only other person iv ever felt the same way with has been her, she tells me "at least this way we'll never hate eachother". Thats been in my head off and on sence, by redrfining the relationship the possibility to hate comes into play. does that risk out way the good that could come of it? In my lifr ive learned that change is a part of life, its nrssicery. Is yhat safty of something remaining the same so important?

[smackie9]

Um how about some proper spelling.

[Mish]

Um how about some proper spelling.

Such ignorance of the origins of the English language!

Didn't you know that "yhat safty" is an ancient colloqui derived of the low German, which means "thou underpants arst on fire, my dear Sir"?

Likewise "lifr" derived during Victorian period from common Spanish "libre" was used up until the late 19th century and was one of the major inspirations for such important writers as Mark Twain.

Should I even begin to explain the ancient significance of words like "redrfining", "nrssicery" and "debocle"?

[qwertz]

They just look like typo's to me. To be fair the poster may just not be able to spell properly.

[vashti]

As I sit, bored out of my mind at work certain things cross my mind one in particular keeps coming back. A few weeks ago I was talking to my best friend (who ive been after in one form or another srnce I mrt her) reguarding my latest debocle with my on again off again bipolar ex and how the only other person iv ever felt the same way with has been her, she tells me "at least this way we'll never hate eachother". Thats been in my head off and on sence, by redrfining the relationship the possibility to hate comes into play. does that risk out way the good that could come of it? In my lifr ive learned that change is a part of life, its nrssicery. Is yhat safty of something remaining the same so important?

Not sure I understand you question, but I think your friend is wrong in saying that you could never hate each other. People who love passionately also HATE passionately.