Hmmm...how is it that people end up in these dilemas? I'd like to say I'm a romantic guy, but I've never been in one of these "love triangle" things or having to choose between two people. Anyways, confronting this guy may be difficult for you. If a girl were to confront me about something like this, I'd listen and consider it, but this guy may not be the same. And as for the 2 hour drive thing, it doesn't matter as long as there is trust. In the end, if he ends up being really close to you, you may end up moving closer. I think distance between people only increases the passion between them.
"There are no such things as stupid questions, just stupid people"
-Anonymous