I've been reading articles about guys having this attitude. But I just don't know how to deal with it and maybe its better to hear from the experts.
I am 23 years old. And I've been in relationship with this guy for almost 2 years. He is my first boyfriend and I hope he would be my last. And I love him so much. But I don't know how to handle him. He have this attitude, when he is OK he is so sweet and then a little thing that make him mad make him so mean. He will suddenly stop talking with a frown face and then sometimes I don't know what happened, he would just change his mood.
What I usually do is text and call him non stop until he would answer me. I will not stop telling him I'm sorry even if I don't know what's wrong. And if he would not answer me, I will go to his house and so that we could talk. And every time we talk I just find out, he is jealous, he is insecure of things I did not notice.. I keep on telling I love him and he has nothing to worry about, but the same thing happens.
Sometime I thought he intended it because he wanted to break up with me. So I did and I told him its over. But he don't want us to break up. He said he was sorry and he loves me and promised me that he will not do it again. But I think that promise was forgotten. He is always like that.
But then again, he told me, he would change if we will live together. He told me that he would be the sweetest guy and he would take good care of me. And I don't know if I would believe that. And just in case I'll give him a chance, another problem would occur. My mother don't like him, and I don't know how to tell her that I would like to move out with him.
For now, his issue is that I'm too scared and I can't stand up for him. Honestly, I don't really know what to do.. Any advise is really appreciated. I really need it.
Thank you so much for reading and for answering.