Hi I was wondering if anyone could help me with my situation. It's nothing really serious, but for some reason it keeps on upsetting me. I just want to know if I have a right to be upset or am I just being a dick.
Anyway here is my problem.
I have been dating my girlfriend for just about two years now and for the last 6-8months, it seems we have fallen in a rut (at least I think so, she doesn't want to talk about it). There is barely any intimacy left between us it feels like. When we first started going out, there was so much sex that I actually had to take a couple nights off because I couldn't keep up (funny for a guy to say, but I take medication for my heart that sometimes makes me tired and not in the "mood"). Things were going great for the first year or so until sex became rarer and rarer. I know it's natural for things to cool down in relationships as years go by, but in my opinion its gone beyond that point. Its come to the point where I almost have to beg for it. Up until a couple weeks ago, we hadn't had sex for almost two months. I don't know what to do. Every time I bring it up, she turns it around and makes me sound like some horn dog prick or tells me that I should just dump her. From my point of view, having sex at least once a week doesn't seem that ridiculous to ask (especially when I'm only 20 years old for **** sakes). As far as I know, its not that I'm bad at sex, I can usually make her orgasm (she doesn't really know how to fake it, so I can tell if I am being sloppy). I love her more than I have ever loved someone, and she really is a great girl. I just feel sometimes that she doesn't reciprocate the feeling. She hates hugging or kissing most of the time, and won't let me touch her when were going to bed.
I am at my wits end right now. I don't know if I am in the right or wrong, but I don't think I can go on like this anymore. Every time I hear her make an excuse about why she isn't in the mood, it makes me sick to my stomach. Recently, its been putting me into a depression, something that I haven't dealt with in nearly two years. I love my girlfriend dearly, but I don't know if I can continue like this.
Help.