You seem like a mature and genuine person with a good heart. Although you haven't found the right girl to date and have a long term relationship, you were on the right track to attract the right person come to your life. However, if you decided to take on the other route, pursue merely physical pleasure, hope that will satisfy your emotional loneliness, you are going to screw up yourself and not going to be happy about the emotional struggles that will bring. You need to believe in yourself you are a great person with lots of wonderful qualities that a lot of other guys don't have.
Jim Rohn said "To attract attractive people, you must be attractive. To attract powerful people, you must be powerful. To attract committed people, you must be committed. Instead of going to work on them, you go to work on yourself. If you become, you can attract."
It is just a matter of time the right person will show up. Don't be despair and do something that's against your inner believes and faith. You are much better than those "average guys" who merely looking for physical pleasure. Surround yourself with people like you, go attend more social events, sports events, make new friends, not just female friends, but males friends too. The right person will be attracted by you.
Hope this helps :-)
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