I'm not really sure where to start or why I'm here in the first place except that I feel overwhelmed and could really use some advice. Basically I am in a relationship with a great person but we have our problems. We recently broke up due to these problems but are now trying to resolve them and be together. The BIG problem is that I have fallen in love with somebody else. This would be easy to assume I should just leave the old relationship to focus on the new one but there are many other complications. I really do feel like I still love my boyfriend, if we can resolve our problems I can see a future with him. The new man has also moved to another country but promises to return every month to see me and to move back in a year so we can live together and have a proper relationship. I know I should cut all ties with the new man and focus on my relationship but I can't get him out of my head. I don't want both, I couldn't live with myself if I was cheating, I just don't know what to do for the best.
Sorry this is so lengthy, there are even more complications but this is the shortest explanation I can come up with!