I live alone in my flat and so I spend most of my free time surfing the net. Just recently, my too curious IT expert boyfriend was able to install a program to my computer which made all my computer activities accessible to him. Remotely, at any given time he can see/read everything I do in the computer. Otherwise, I use someone else's. I felt so invaded. I tried confronting him but he said why would I be bothered as we don't keep secrets from each other. But, I feel it's just not so right. How can I make him stop it without making him think I want to hide something?