Hi all, I just registered to the forum and I wanted to have a few opinions/advice/flaming/critics about the crazy/stupid/ridiculous adventure that I'll start soon.
I recently met this girl on Facebook and for some stupid reason I couldn't stop stalking her profile ( I know it's creepy ) I'd at least visit her profile 10-15 times a day to see if she posted a comment or said anything.
I always had a crush for Asian girls, but this girl has something that others don't, this girl is not letting me sleep at nights I wake up randomly 4-5 times a night and as soon as I wake up she's the first thing that pops in my head, I can't stop thinking about her, even though I barely know anything about her besides the fact that she's single and has 2 Facebook accounts with 5k friends each. ( err ? )
She's Chinese and lives in Malaysia. I'm currently living in a South America country ( Business related )
Now, here comes the crazy part, I'm willing to give up everything I'm doing at the moment and travel to the other side of the world go so I can see her in person. But this girl doesn't even know I exist, I'm pretty much invisible in her huge 10k friend list. I've tried talking to her a few times on Facebook-chat but she always ignored and never said a single word. ( err ? )
However, I'm a persistent person and do not give up that easily. ( I do not accept failure or rejection well ) so I'm trying to figure a way for her to talk to me on Facebook and at least know that I do exist and I'm going to Malaysia for "vacations"
What I had planned to approach to her was talk to her in Facebook and let her gain a bit trust in me, Get her to know me a little bit, and tell her that I'd go to Malaysia for a couple of months and if she would like to hang out sometime with me while I'm there.
Well, that plan isn't going that well because she doesn't even answer me on Facebook.
What can I possible do to approach to her before I go to Malaysia? I'm traveling over there in about a month, I know where she lives ( Not the exact address ) but I know the city and the university she goes to. ( Stalk? LOL ) Yeah I know it sounds creepy as hell but that will be my last resource to see her in person and try to talk to her pretending that I know her and we're friends on Facebook.
I've had crushes for other Asian girls in the past but never really cared much about it, I was like " Oh she's pretty " That's it, I never had this feeling of (" I'm gonna do whatever it takes to get her to be my friend at least") This girl is so special to me, that I'd be the happiest person in the world with just seeing her in front of me.
The few friends I talked to about this they thought I was a retard and I was gonna fail hard and waste all my money in this crazy adventure, They said, " Life isn't a fairy tale story, wake up and see the reality " Well I clearly can't see reality, I do admit that what I'm doing is crazy but I feel that if I don't do it I'll regret it all my life and think that I could've had a chance with her.
What you guys think? Am I crazy for traveling to the other side of the world for a girl that doesn't even know I exist?
Feel free to flame, criticize me and tell me what you think about the adventure that I'll start soon.
I've fallen in love with her, even though I don't know much about her, something deep inside me tells me she's the right one and I'm willing to do anything on earth to at least have the slightest chance to be near her.