Hi,
Need a bit of help ideally from a female perspective!
I broke up with my ex-g/f about 6 months ago for various reasons and I believed the best thing to do in the circumstance was to get on with my life which I have done so and not to contact her as I needed to move on. She wanted to remain 'friends' and has emailed me a couple of times since when it was my b'day / sisters wedding and I've been very civil but kept communication brief as I believe in the situation this was the best thing for me as I needed to move forward and not be held back by old feelings.
Just the other day whilst I was out, she called me (which I missed) and then half an hour sent me a txt message saying:
''No need to call back, just wanted to see how you were. Hope you have a great xmas and new year and your family are well and they do to''
As it was I didn't call her back but still why would she write something when xmas is not exactly next week!!!
It has been baffling me why she would do this. Surely if she wanted to speak to me she should have sent something saying 'do you think we could have a chat' or something along those lines!
Thanks
-Michael