Hey guys, so this is a little awkward being that this is my first thread in a forum... But ive had something on my mind for a while and I need some help here....
I am female and growing up my family was friends with another family until we all lost touch about 10 years ago....
Now I have recently got in touch with one of the guys in that family who used to be really overweight but now has ship shaped up and is looking amazing..
I have not seen him and he has not seen me (but over fb)
I am a beautiful girl (really!) but my midsection is overweight and im insecure about it.
Now we have been flirting and things over texts and fb. He knows what I look like but of course fb pics are more flattering than in rl.
But now he wants to meet up and im scared, and Im nervous, and I cannot shake this insecurity feeling of I don't deserve it, or im not good enough, or he should be dating some tall blonde fit woman, not a 5 foot latina with a gut HAHAH
How can i get through this?
Do fit men HAVE to go for fit women
Is weight even an issue?
Help me out