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    Help, i have messed up!!!!!!!!!!

    Hello, i'm new to all this.

    1 month ago i split up with my bf in a terrible way, i did it via e-mail to avoid the conflict of doing it face to face.

    Surprisingly he took the news rather well considering but that aside it wasnt left on the best of notes.

    After a week of no contact i decided to text him to see how he was he was and tell him i still cared. i was gutted when he didnt reply and i havent heard from him since.

    I guessing he's moved on so i need to do the same but i miss him so much i dont want to make first contact. perhaps he thinks ive moved on

    I'm so annoyed, has anyone got any ideas

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    He's punishing you for the way you broke up.

    Why do you care? You broke up with him, move on.

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    Yehhh well i regret it now!

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    Quote Originally Posted by cantbreakthis View Post
    Yehhh well i regret it now!
    Not much you can do about it.

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    but what do you think he's doing or thinking? do you think i should try and contact him?

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    Quote Originally Posted by cantbreakthis View Post
    but what do you think he's doing or thinking? do you think i should try and contact him?
    Nope, you broke up through email like a coward....this is your karma. He's doing the right thing by NOT contacting you. why should he talk to someone who doesn't even respect him enough to break up with him in person? Learn your lesson and move on, I'm sure he is in the process of doing the same seeing as how he hasn't don't so much as even text you back.

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    well what do i do now?

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    Quote Originally Posted by cantbreakthis View Post
    well what do i do now?
    There is only one thing you can do. Talk to him, face to face this time. Tell him you are sorry for the email. Tell him you regret breaking up with him. Be honest, be sincere. Ask him to take you back.

    You have only one chance, and not even a big one. But if you do nothing, you'll have not even that.

    Just out of curiosity, why exactly did you split?

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    Leave the poor guy alone, you've already hurt him enough. If you can't live with it, you should just kill yourself.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jolicoeur View Post
    There is only one thing you can do. Talk to him, face to face this time. Tell him you are sorry for the email. Tell him you regret breaking up with him. Be honest, be sincere. Ask him to take you back.

    You have only one chance, and not even a big one. But if you do nothing, you'll have not even that.

    Just out of curiosity, why exactly did you split?
    cos i thought i was better than him

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    trolling season i see

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    so it's completely gone now?

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    If you thought you where better than him than yeah I wouldnt even try. In a relationship both are equal. Remember that for your next relationship.

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    what will he be thinking, come on someone must know

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    Quote Originally Posted by cantbreakthis
    cos i thought i was better than him
    How did you think you were better than him? Better looking? Smarter? A better person?

    And why do you miss him now? Did you realise you weren't? Or is it the idea he might be with someone else?

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