Is she testing how determined I am?

**loneshit** · 01-12-12, 12:51 AM

Hi all, my case is this

I'll start from the beginning, me and one friend of mine have crush on this girl. it was a 3d2n chalet. during the first day we played some catching game around the whole chalet. i hid myself so well that every angle blocked me and i was sure no one could find me, then this cursh of mine appeared and caught me. after that when she was escorting me back to the catched area shhe asked ,e 'u know why i found u?instincts'<-----does this mean something?.on the second night during the chalet,she left first with another girl friend of hers. This guy friend of mine then followed up and passed her a present. then I didnt want to miss this chance as well as I already planned to tell her how i feel on this day. but that friend of mine beat me to it. i told her to wait at the bus stop saying i have something to pass her. and i cycled at full speed to her and told her face to face saying i like her. but she replied me saying 'i treat you as a friend only' and reached out her hand and asked me 'friends?' and i dumbly shook it. and i only realised it when i went back to the chalet. then i sent her saying 'i shouldnt have shook ur hand cos i do not just want to be friends' and she replied me 'i think u'll give up,like seriously'<--this reply, can someone tell me whether is there a hidden meaning cos the word 'think' give me a feeling that she dont find me determined enough and she's testing me and it could be that she really think we are not meant for each other.... can someone please help me???? im feeling very miserable right now.. thanks..

**smackie9** · 01-12-12, 03:34 AM

She is tormenting and demeaning and you like this girl? Don't get involved with a girl like that...she will only stomp on your heart and keep making you feel bad. Stay away from her.

**basilandthyme** · 01-12-12, 04:16 AM

No, she's not playing games with you. She simply doesn't want you as a boyfriend.

**searock** · 01-12-12, 04:21 AM

Originally Posted by loneshit

i cycled at full speed to her and told her face to face saying i like her. but she replied me saying 'i treat you as a friend only' and reached out her hand and asked me 'friends?' and i dumbly shook it. and i only realised it when i went back to the chalet. then i sent her saying 'i shouldnt have shook ur hand cos i do not just want to be friends' and she replied me 'i think u'll give up,like seriously'

She isn't interested. Back off and move on - at least you tried.

**smackie9** · 01-12-12, 10:47 AM

Shhhh I was trying to make her look bad so he wouldn't.....

**loneshit** · 01-12-12, 11:11 AM

I thought so... but 'u know why i found u?instincts' really gave me a boost of confidence though... haish...

**basilandthyme** · 02-12-12, 04:58 AM

Mate, you can't peg a whole outlook on one sentence. You need to look at consistency of behaviour to see if someone is interested in you.

**smackie9** · 02-12-12, 06:02 AM

Originally Posted by loneshit

I thought so... but 'u know why i found u?instincts' really gave me a boost of confidence though... haish...

There will be other girls my friend.

**loneshit** · 07-12-12, 02:45 PM

i see, thanks for ur advice! so damn appreciate it

but well, I found the answers already, when i posted this i was doubting my feelings for her already but now im prepared to persist no matter what even if i already know the results

thanks!

**searock** · 07-12-12, 04:16 PM

Originally Posted by loneshit

but now im prepared to persist no matter what even if i already know the results

Why the hell would you do that? Do you want to make an ass of yourself?

**Fruitsss** · 07-12-12, 07:14 PM

I think if u know there is another guy after her u need to step up faster but not to much into her face.
And i think she knows how she is and she dont think u can handle her.
Or the type of guy that can put up with her.

So thats why she told u that .
And i also think she dont see u as a bf. and she is planned to keep seeing u as a normal freind.

So somewhere there is a change for u to step up your game and let her see that u r serious about your feelings.
But u will have to do something out of normal. And special.
Doenst mean she will say yes then. But there is a opportunity there for u to try. But if she still tell u clearly NO! dont keep trying. cause it become stalking then.

**smackie9** · 07-12-12, 10:19 PM

Fail!......

**Fruitsss** · 07-12-12, 10:40 PM

dont look for drama so u can report me when i tell you your truth worthless slore!
they are so racist that they take u serious. u most be cerbys family.

**smackie9** · 08-12-12, 01:12 AM

Cluelesss.......

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