So iv been seeing this girl. We've been on a few dates and it seemed like we were hitting it off. The other night she came round for dinner and we stayed up til late. She had stayed over previously a few nights before. We didnt have sex but messed around a little and had some kissing and cuddling in the morning but she declined to stay this time but we had a bit of a kiss and i walked her home. We had another kiss at her door and i left her. Shortly after i recieved a text. She said that she wants to take things slow and that she's still a bit reserved from a horrible incident that had recently happened to her. She thank me for dinner and a good night. Then wished me sweet dreams. I expressed that i understood and it wasnt an issue for me. saying that i didnt ask her to stay with expectations just that i didnt want her to go home. As i was still a bit drunk i think this came across to strong/intense when i kind of ment the opposite. This was 4am on saturday morning. I text her in the morning asking if she had time for a coffee before work but i havent heard from her since... its 7pm on saturday and im getting a bit worried i scared her off. Should i text her explaining i was still a bit drunk when i sent that and all i meant was i like hanging with her and dont expect anything to happen?? Or do i just leave it. The thing is she's going back to home in a week. And wont be back for several weeks if she decides to come back. Essentially all i want is the chance to see her again before she goes...
Thanks for listening
Tom*