alright, I'll start by telling a bit about myself. I'm 16, soon to be 17, a junior in high school, and am more confused than when I heard Bill Clinton ask for the definition of the word "is".
Here's my story/problem. When I was 11 years old, I developed crush on a girl who was a good friend of mine's sister. In fact, I liked her up until I turned 16 (in that time, i've gone through numerous relationships) Well, it was a huge crush. It lasted for 5 years after all. About a week ago, I find out that this girl who i've had a crush on for 5 years had just as much as a crush on me. We even discussed today, how crazy it was that we had both liked each other for so long and never known.
"Well, what is the problem?" you ask. Oh, that's easy. We are both currently involved with someone. Now, I am for relationship loyalty as much as the next guy, but I couldn't help but feel something when I heard about this. A lot of the same feelings came back to me. I don't want to just up and leave the person I am dating now, because of this. But at the same time, I dont' want to be in a relationship where I really have feelings for another person. I am so confused on what to say and do right now. Any help, would be more than appreciated. To whoever answer, thanks for being there for me.