how do you keep in touch with a girl you're just starting to know?

[yaganon]

For those of you who haven't read my previous posts, I really like this girl, but she goes to a different college. Also, if you haven't read my previous posts, I'd prefer you not read them because I only need this question answered.

I want to keep in touch with her, but I also don't want to be annoying. I mean I don't want to be in the way if she starts liking other guys. I'm not active on facebook, and I don't plan to. I'm not an internet fan. I mean if I get a fb, and all I do is post on her wall or write her messages, it'd be weird.

What useful advice can you give me? Keep in mind that I'm not extremely close to her, and I basically never keep in touch with any girls I know.

[FullofSighs]

With a phone? Or you could always try emails, that way you send a few back and forth a day. There are many ways, you could also just be up front with her and say something like, "I would like to keep in touch with you, is there anyway that i can"? She will tell you if she wants you to keep in touch with her

[QueenofCorona]

Email or texts?

[kisswithafist]

texts will be the best way to keep in touch i think, just an odd casual text there and then wont do any harm, or even a phone call every so often will be just as acceptable.

But yeah i agree with fullofsighs ask if you can stay in touch then she will let you know.

[yaganon]

If I ask her to stay in touch w/me, how can she say no? Wouldn't that be somewhat condescending?

[kisswithafist]

well i take your point, but i suppose she could say no if she really didnt want you to!! but you will be able to tell how intereted she is in you by her answer, thats the main point of you asking her.