Need advice about a girl....

[ConfusedSheikra]

I'm very confused about this girl and need advice before i do something stupid.

So i met this girl in work. We are the same age and both in college. She seems to be a flirty girl in my opinion however im unsure whether she is interested in me or just being herself. She initiated contact with me by getting my number from a co worker but she only texts me after i text her. In work she tells me about other guys that she likes and has often tried to assess what my type of girl is.

We get on well and generally chat about everythin and we have both confessed things that we believe to be very confidential information about our different social circles. By the by We dont live in the same areas and hence we generally would never conincidentaly bump into each in social situations.

She has come to my defence in work on occassion, while we both playfully insult each other more recently things were a little physical when she hit me i feigned injury to her amusment, she even wrote her name and a heart on my arm. She has also passed favourable comment on my body and asserts id only wish to be with her in a playful way. She admitted to dreaming about me but wont say in what way just that I was in her dream.

We text every now and then, most recently she, being herself, determined that she could have me if she truly wanted me, but it was not in a vain arrogant way but a more mysterious way. When she asked what i thought of her i said i was too shy to say while she quickly dismissed this wit 'i dont really care anyway' but then said she thinks im cool but in denial of her greatness.

if u need more info or have questions which may help do please ask i need help

I think this is generally my problem... im seriously confused... my head is all over the place... I think ive got a serious crush on this girl but i dont want to be made a fool of.

what can anyone make of this situation? What should i do? Does she really like me or is it just her nature which is leading me on??? Can anyone determine her actually thoughts from this???

[Yggdrasil]

I would say, from the signs she's giving you (complimenting you, drawing a hart with her name on your arm, fooling around, teasing), that she at least likes you.

Why don't you simply find the courage to ask her? It's not that hard and the worst that can happen is that she says no. You shouldn't be afraid of rejection, eventhough it may happen.. but even if she says no, at least you know were you are standing and it's not the end of the world, there's plenty of other girls out there.

I've heard to many times the sentence: darn, if I just could have overcome my fear of rejection and asked her.. now someone else has her...

Hope I'm making sense here.

Good luck.

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[francoseduction]

Hello Sheikra,


>I'm very confused about this girl and need advice before i do >something stupid.
>So i met this girl in work. We are the same age and both in >college. She seems to be a flirty girl in my opinion however im >unsure whether she is interested in me or just being herself. >She initiated contact with me by getting my number from a co >worker but she only texts me after i text her. In work she tells >me about other guys that she likes and has often tried to >assess what my type of girl is.

She is a masculine dominant girl.

>We get on well and generally chat about everythin and we >have both confessed things that we believe to be very >confidential information about our different social circles. By >the by We dont live in the same areas and hence we generally >would never conincidentaly bump into each in social situations.
>She has come to my defence in work on occassion, while we >both playfully insult each other more recently things were a >little physical when she hit me i feigned injury to her >amusment, she even wrote her name and a heart on my arm. >She has also passed favourable comment on my body and >asserts id only wish to be with her in a playful way. She >admitted to dreaming about me but wont say in what way just >that I was in her dream.

So she likes you.

>We text every now and then, most recently she, being herself, >determined that she could have me if she truly wanted me, but >it was not in a vain arrogant way but a more mysterious way. >When she asked what i thought of her i said i was too shy to >say while she quickly dismissed this wit 'i dont really care >anyway' but then said she thinks im cool but in denial of her >greatness.

Be careful to not take the role of the girl here. This girl like you. Now you should lead her somewhere.

>if u need more info or have questions which may help do >please ask i need help
>I think this is generally my problem... im seriously confused... >my head is all over the place... I think ive got a serious crush >on this girl but i dont want to be made a fool of.
>what can anyone make of this situation? What should i do?

You should escalate: if you like her you should make a plan of how you get forward. She seems to be a masculine dominant girl. You need to be very strong with a girl like that. A situation where she takes the initiative and you follow will not work long-term.

>Does she really like me or is it just her nature which is leading >me on??? Can anyone determine her actually thoughts from >this???

She gave you many, many messages that she likes you emotionally and sexually. Just go for it if you like. You have to take the lead.

[Peter Pry]

No one here is a mind reader. No one here knows what she is thinking. Only she knows that. How about you ask her?