Why would a guy be *really* nice to you, go out of their way for you, suggest that the two of you should go out to dinner and tells you to call him (twice!), then when you call (a few days later), they give you the blow-off and say "I'm really busy" (ok he works two jobs, but he'll have to eat anyway??)?
Btw, he was supposed to be off from his day job today (but not the night job)- but if he really wanted, we could have met up in the daytime. He was supposed to get back to me today, but he didn't.
I'm really stumped. I would have thought that if he didn't want to see me he would have said "I'll call you" instead which left him the option of not calling. Why would he insist I call him only to turn me down?
Can anyone shed some light? I'm really trying to learn, thnx!