Originally Posted by
moonriverlove
I hate him as much as I loved him.
He left me when I needed his support the most.
What do you do if you hate your ex so much?!
I hate myself also because I appeared that I was totally fine with him and the breakup when he called me as a friend.
I am so eager to send him an hatred email and letting him know that I hate him!!
What do you think??
Don't bother sending an email. It won't do nothing to fix the situation.
The hate and anger is good as long as you know how to control it. I went through the same thing and posted about it here and a lot of people told me how unhealthy it was. The difference is I know my body. They were worried that I would hold on to that hatred and become a bitter man. But I'm fine. I'm feeling great. The key is being able to control your emotions and know when you no longer need to feel that hatred. Only when you can look at him and have feelings of nothing will you be completely over him... no love, no hated, nothing.
I don't chase, I replace.