Okay, i don't know why this is getting to me. But it's got under my skin, my ex, done this thing on FaceBook, and it was a note. Here's some of the questions;
Honestly, if you wanted to get laid right now, could you?
;]
Do you believe your ex cares about you?
Highly doubt that one.
Do you give out second chances way to easily?
Ner.
Currently waiting on something/ someone?
Might be like,
Do you keep in contact with any of your ex- boyfriends/ girlfriends?
Nah.
Are you single at this point and time?
I am, yes.
Has anyone ever taken you for granted?
LOL.
Who did you see last shirtless?
;]
I don't know, this has just got under my skin. Especially the "Do you believe your ex cares about you?"
I feel like breaking NC, just to let her know the truth...
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28-01-10, 05:31 AM #1
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Why does this get to me?
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28-01-10, 05:34 AM #2
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Get off her facebook- NOW.
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28-01-10, 05:36 AM #3
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It came up in the mini-feeds. I have not yet blocked them.
Wow, it's just made my mood, hit rock bottom.
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28-01-10, 05:43 AM #4
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Get off of Facebook, period. Take a break from the drama.
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28-01-10, 05:44 AM #5
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I'll say it again block her and get off facebook. You can only blame yourself for poor self control.
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28-01-10, 05:45 AM #6
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I feel like deleting her, but that'd just basically push her clean away.
I just feel like going against NC now, to let her know, i actually do care, that's got to me EXTREMELY bad.
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28-01-10, 05:58 AM #7
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But what will you achieve by telling her that you care after what you had said to her prior to her breakup? You will present yourself as an ex who's trying to sweet-talk yourself to win her heart back and she won't buy it. Breaking off NC will not help you change what she feels about you. If you want to keep the door slightly open for her, by all means do it. Keep her as a friend on FB, but maintain NC, block her minifeeds, and stay away from her profile page.
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28-01-10, 06:03 AM #8
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Mehh, i've just went from sadness, to anger. I'm trying to cool off abit, that's just really annoyed me.
I know who she is, and she's attempting to be someone she clearly isn't. She's going back to friends, she slagged off to me. She seems extremely 2 faced at the minute. But yeah i guess you're right in terms of NC. But i really hope, she feels that i do care for her. She's probably come to that conclusion through the NC, but that's just an assumption. I sent her many texts and emails, a few weeks ago saying that i do love her, and care etc.
Not it's now 2 weeks of NC, and this is the closest i've came to breaking NC.
I hope i can cheer up, because i'm struggling to see a positive side at the minute.
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28-01-10, 06:22 AM #9
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Stay strong, mate. You're not alone. I'm going through the same thing. Sometimes there is nothing positive from an experience like this. There are only pain and misery. But we learn the most from the hardest lesson.
