Florida, if it's her choice to not have intercourse - but she knows it's the only way you can orgasm, then she's out of line to get upset if you don't get there.
Edited to add: if it's your choice to not have intercourse, you need to take responsibility for the fact that your choices are making her feel bad.
Last edited by basilandthyme; 09-04-13 at 12:47 PM.
Never regret anything that has happened in your life. It cannot be changed, forgotten or undone. So, take it as a lesson learned and move on.