Quite a question, isn't it? It's something that all young people should know beforehand these days, no?
However, in my case, it's quite complicated. I am currently.. er.. 'seperated' from my beloved, but I have hopes that he and I will once more live together.
However, even when I was living with him, he and I *never* had sex. At least not in the penetration way, although we did other things. It's because of his size. He's 6'8 and his penis is about 11' when fully-erect. It's not a 'Wow, that's cool!' thing, it causes him a LOT of pain because of several health problems that have arisen because of it.
I tried to get him to see me as someone else, because had had no problem using his size to punish women when he was a Pain Master, or when he despised them. (My boyfriend is not a good man, unless you can see through his exterior, but he is mine.) But when it comes to me, he flat-out refuses to have sex with me.
I want to marry this man, I want to have children of our own, because I am completely attached to his beautiful little daughter, she is my world as well as his. But I want children of our own, and Lance mentioned that he wanted them to, with me.
But how can I get him to break free of his fear of hurting me, and actually allow himself to become intimate with me? It's not just his size, it's the 'pressure of his ejaculation' that would cause pain. How would he know that? I try not to think of him having unprotected sex in his past. I know he's 'clean', because I saw the results for myself, I guess it's more of an envy thing.
Is such a thing possible for a man who is vain and prideful? (He is 38, but he is absolutely gorgeous. However, vanity is one of his biggest faults.)