Hmm so I'm talking to this guy and we have been on a date. He told my friend that he liked how i play hard to get...but apparently he is the only one playing this game.. I wasn't playing hard to get and rarely partake in games (though I am guilty at times). It just takes me a while to become emotionally invested in a guy and I'm not eager/desperate girl.
So then I started thinking about interpreting signals wrong, and how I might give off the wrong signals...which lead me to think about a friend who ive been talking to as well, and he is very confusing- sometimes he seems interested in me and sometimes he will initiate conversation but then seem distant/short responses. It had never crossed me mind before but is he maybe "playing hard to get" and Ive noticed he has played other games before..
Long story short, are the rules for guys the same for girls when playing hard to get? I really dislike games so is there any way I could bring this up to my friend to try and get to the root of this?
Thanks in advance