I am currently in a 8 month relationship with the man of my dreams, I wouldnt trade him for the world. Although for the last say 5 months he has been in a very difficult situation, his ex wife because of the divorce moved back to her home town (which is about 8 hours away) with their 3 yr old son. Before this he saw his son on a very regular basis but is now stripped down to calling him through the week and seeing him as hardly as often as he would like to due to his current poor financial situation. Just recently I have been feeling exceedingly guilty and hurt for this little boy who isn't having the opportunity to grow up knowing his daddy. I tell James regularly if he wants to move back up there to be with his son to not hesitate in the slightest as he should take priority over myself, but he has said that it was his ex wifes decision to move him so far away from himself and at this time he can only do what he can and physically cannot remove himself from myself as he feels he has met the "love of his life". He also said when his financial situation improves he will be visiting him on a much more regular basis but for now he can only do as much as he can. The big question in this is am I doing the right thing letting him stay here for me?, I love him more than anything but I feel if I had to step back for the sake of his son, I might have to. :'(