Don't want to mess this up.

[LaMb ChOp]

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[Mathias]

Just see where it goes.

If you start jumping on this and asking him where this is going, etc., you're going to mess it up.

Enjoy it, see what happens, and remember - you just got out of a marriage. Don't rush into anything regardless.

[ShellyZ]

If you want him to see you as girlfriend material, don't have sex with him again until after you've gone out on a few dates. And I mean OUT on dates, not to your house to eat dinner or watch a movie. Right now you're just easy sex to him, and he hasn't even taken you out on one date. You gave him the option of going out for drinks or cooking him a meal at your place, and he chose your place. Why? Because he doesn't want to spend money on you and he only wants to see you if it's in a place where you can have sex. Basically he decided to skip the date and go right to sex at your place. Free meal for him too.

He's already made it clear that he's only interested in seeing you for sex. You offered to meet him after work and he said he'd only have time for a quickie. Just enough time for sex, not enough time for anything else, how convenient. You're going to get hurt if you let this continue. You already have high hopes for a relationship with this guy, when it's obvious that he's only using you for sex (and free food). See if he'd be willing to go out on a date with you and talk to you and get to know you a little...without the promise of sex! Then you'll know if he's interested in you as a person.