First off, let me Give all of you a very Merry Christmas...
and My question is this....
Im recently divorced...and I have not seen her since July....
I want to text her to wish her a Merry Christmas....
Should i let this go....which my gut tells me...
or should i follow my heart and just text her anyways and just spread the cheer?
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25-12-08, 03:12 PM #1
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Should I contact her?
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25-12-08, 03:27 PM #2
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Been in a similar situation with my ex.... it's best to just let it go... especially with this much time elapsed. Even something as innocent as holiday cheer might be misconstrued to mean that you are still carrying the torch for her.
"The weakest soul, knowing its own weakness, and believing this truth that strength can only be developed by effort and practice, will, thus believing, at once begin to exert itself, and, adding effort to effort, patience to patience, and strength to strength, will never cease to develop, and will at last grow divinely strong."
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25-12-08, 06:47 PM #3
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Honestly.....my ego keeps me from even caring about a torch...
What i'd like to be friends with the woman...
But she is like i never met her....she doesnt even know I exist..
Ill let it be....
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26-12-08, 12:43 AM #4
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was it a bad ending?
baby ya hustle. but me i hustle harder.
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26-12-08, 02:05 AM #5
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Yes it was.....for me it was....
for her it probably meant nothing
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26-12-08, 06:17 AM #6
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If you want to be friends with her, then a card will help you do this
If she doesn't want to hear from you, she just won't answer.
Love is the light that guides you through the darkest tunnels.
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27-12-08, 03:22 PM #7
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Well....i did send her a text...after all....
and thinking i would feel better...it made me feel worse...
and she didnt message back...
I didnt expect her to text back, but i wish i wouldnt have....
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