John Deere Letters

[matepal]

Is a Dear John letter really practical in any circumstances aside from dumping someone in the army? I tend to think that a phone call is a little harsh. Face to face seems to be the way to go (when they need to go). What seems to be the best conversational method to dump someone?

[bluestrattos]

the best and it should be the only way to break up: public but quiet place and a small conversation between you both. There's the stupid way: cellphone messages, by phone, letter or e-mail.

[The*Iceman]

Jus take them aside (out of earshot of everyone else) and jus say summit like 'i dont think its working between us anymore and i think it would be better to finish it' thts the least harsh way i cn think of and it normally works fine

[matepal]

Sounds natural.