Hi I am a bit stuck what's happening here, an need some advice or wether I'm thinking too much.
I'll try keep things short rather then an essay!
I've been with my partner for 7 years now an everything has been fine.
We're both young an live together and have been completely relaxed in each others company.
We went on holiday for 2 weeks with her family.
I noticed she was a bit off with me, kinda gave me the impression I wasn't there.
One of the days I sat with her on the beech an asked if anything was on her mind, she seemed to think nothing was wrong. Eventually she said tht we don't do anything fun anymore, but it kind of felt like she was making this up as she genually seemed shocked that I asked her if anything was wrong.
Once we got back I planned a number of things to do, many of them were shot down, I was thinking to myself. How am I ment to plan anything when she's always busy? (She doesn't like suprises much either)
The following weekend she went away on a long weekend for her moms birthday.
Her cousin also went who became recently single.
When she came back on the Monday I was at work. She sent me a text saying she needed space to clear her head or something. She went to her moms spent two hours there was upset then came back saying she was sorry and she didn't know what she was doing. I needed some space too as I was so confused so didn't take her back for a couple of days.
Since then things haven't been the same, I feel she doesn't show me as much effection
As before. I spiralled into anxiety about if she still loves me an why she doesn't pay as much attention to me.
Since then There have been two family occasions where I have gone quiet an to the back. Completely unlike me.
She says she loves me but I just dnt know. I find it really hard to speak to her as she usually gets angry and she's everything is fine and I'm being over paranoid.
I just feel like she can't have fun with me anymore.
Matt